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The Benefits of Using Vibrating Underwear

What could be better than a classic vibrator? We have an idea: One that you can use completely hands-free. That's where vibrating underwear comes in. 

According to a Cosmo poll, 96% of women would be thrilled to receive vibrating undies as a gift. And it's easy to see why they're so popular! Vibrating panties offer one of the most exciting ways to mix up your sex life — all while keeping it on the down-low. 

Whether you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom with your partner or incorporate something new into your solo activities, remote control vibrating underwear is sure to add an exciting element to your sex life.

Intrigued? Let's cover everything you need to know about vibrating underwear and why you need to add it to your stash of sexy luxury lingerie toys

How Do Vibrating Panties Work?

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Whether you already know a bit of vibrating underwear or this is your first time exploring the idea of using it, this type of toy might sound a little intimidating to get into. But don't worry, it's pretty simple once you're familiar with your options.

There are a couple of different types. Some of these lingerie toys come with both a vibe and special underwear that has a pocket designed to hold the vibe. Others just come with a vibrator that's made to slip into any pair of panties you own, so you can rock anything you want — from a classic bikini cut vibrating panty to a crotchless vibrating panty.

Now let's get into the fun part. Vibrating panties are completely hands-free, which means they're controlled via remote control. This can look like a physical remote or a smartphone app connected to your vibe via Bluetooth. 

How you decide to use this vibe is entirely up to you. You can stay in total control of your vibrating underwear remote, or you can pass it off to a partner for some kinkier play. 

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Your First Time Using Vibrating Underwear

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First time exploring the world of vibrating undies?

No worries! It's pretty easy to get the hang of things. 

Before you start, make sure to get acquainted with your new vibrating friend before using it anywhere in public. Get used to the vibration modes and try it out yourself first — with the remote control in your hand. Then, you can test the waters and, if you want, handoff control to your partner

The rest is pretty self-explanatory once you've adjusted to the different vibrations. Insert the vibrator into your sexiest pair of panties, turn it on, and then you can buzz away!

Vibrating Panties Orgasm: What to Expect 

There's nothing quite like having something buzzing between your legs. There's a special thrill to using vibrating undies in private or in public, especially when they're full of lacy sex appeal (like an open-back cheeky panty). It heightens the senses, keeps you turned on, and stimulates you right when you need it.

Whether the remote is safely tucked away in your pocket or in the hands of your partner, you can experience some mind-blowing simulation. And yes, that can mean tipping over into orgasm territory.

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You can bring yourself right to the point of orgasm and pull back, or you can let loose and enjoy orgasms throughout the day. The best part is: Only you'll know about it. 

That being said, there is too much of a good thing. While it can feel nice to have vibrations going on and on while you're out in public, you still need to give your clitoris a rest. That's where the remote control can come in handy, letting you turn it off and on at will. And if you're not in the mood, you can always give it a break and wait for your libido to ramp back up again. 

Do Vibrating Panties Feel Good? 

So what exactly makes vibrating underwear so hot?

First of all, it can bring you some profound pleasure. Having a vibrator pressed right up against the clitoris can be a wildly intense experience. It's also the type of stimulation that's most likely to bring you to orgasm. 81.6% of women report needing clitoral stimulation to reach climax.

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But it isn't all about the direct stimulation. The real thrill of vibrating panties is the ability to take your pleasure anywhere you want to go. That can mean moving from room to room, but it can also mean taking things into public for some discreet play. It can even be empowering to take charge of your sexuality in such a taboo setting. Whether you're already a bit of an exhibitionist or you're just looking for the added thrill of secret stimulation that only you know about, vibrating panties are the best way to satisfy your inner voyeur without crossing a line. 

For some extra excitement, you can let a partner have complete control over your pleasure — ramping things up and slowing things down when you least expect it. And they get the enjoyment of watching you get off, completely hands-free. 

Places Where You Can Use Your Vibrating Underwear

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Vibrating panties can be used anywhere. It all comes down to where you'll feel the most excited to use it — and how adventurous you're feeling. 

It's time to put on your laciest cheeky panties and start your vibrating adventure. Here are some ideas to help you take your clandestine vibing experience to the next level. 

Coffee Shops 

If you're up for an adventure, coffee shops can be an exciting place to take your vibrating undies as long as you aren't too shy in public. The busier, the better. 

Movie Theaters 

As long as your vibrating panties are relatively quiet (nobody likes a buzzing phone during their movie, let alone a vibrator), movie theaters can be a great place to go. They're dark, discreet, and comfortable. You or your partner can even adjust the vibrations according to the action happening on-screen. 

Restaurants 

Restaurants are a great way to explore the naughtier side of vibrating panties. Pick a nice place with a quiet, peaceful, and dimly lit atmosphere for some extra fun. Enjoy squirming under the table as you try to keep a straight face in front of the waiter. 

Nightclubs 

What better place to have some sexy fun? It's loud, sweaty, and physical. All the movement from dancing will let you try new angles and push as hard as you want against your intimate vibe. Try timing the remote to the music as you dance. 

Gyms 

You're not alone if you feel a little hot and heavy while working out. Research shows that hitting the gym can give your sex drive a boost. So the next time you find yourself at the gym, try slipping on a pair of vibrating underwear to ramp up the feelings of excitement you experience from working out. Maybe steer clear of the treadmills, so you don't lose your balance from any surprise vibrations. 

At Home 

Let's face it: Public vibrating isn't for everyone. Maybe you want to enjoy the intimacy of using a hands-free vibrator with your partner. 

Stay at home and try sitting in one room while your partner sits in another (with the remote). Give them some power over your pleasure, and enjoy the fact that this experience is only for the two of you. 

Vibrating Panties: Your New Favorite Sex Toy

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Whether you're wearing your sexiest outfit or you've just slipped into a comfy pair of sweatpants, nobody needs to know that you've got a vibrator hiding underneath. That's the best part about vibrating panties — you can get off wherever and whenever you want without anybody being the wiser.

If you're ready to dive into the thrilling, taboo world of vibrating undies, look no further than JYMMYJANE. Instead of turning to any old underwear, slip into something sexy and luxurious with our range of vibrating panties. We've got the hottest styles for every preference and sensitivity. Please take a look at our luxe lingerie or explore the rest of our collection for some more discreet fun

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References:

8 Super Kinky Things You Can (and Should!) Do With Vibrating Panties. (October 2019). Cosmopolitan. 

The 15 Best Vibrating Panties for Top-Secret Sensations (February 2021). Bedbible

Women's Experiences With Genital Touching, Sexual Pleasure, and Orgasm: Results From a U.S. Probability Sample of Women Ages 18 to 94. (August 2017). Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy

The Best Vibrating Panties—and Why This Sex Toy Is Better Than a Regular Vibrator. (February 2020). Health. 

Acute Exercise Improves Physical Sexual Arousal in Women Taking Antidepressants. (2012). Annals of Behavioral Medicine.

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