Sex Toys for Beginners

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Your orgasms will happen more frequently and be more intense, thanks to JIMMYJANE's thoughtful designs and cutting-edge materials, which will leave you feeling better overall for a long time. As a result, we offer you the ideal choice if this is your first time using a sex toy. 

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Since you are a newbie, it is always preferable to start with common sex toys or vibrators.

The size doesn't really matter because you are in control of what can make you feel pleasure or agony. To achieve an incredible anal orgasm, it is crucial to follow the instructions below:

1. Take Things at Your Own Pace

There are many things out there, such as taboos and myths, that may cause you to rethink your initial anal vibrator experience. The most important step in overcoming this hurdle is to take one at a time. 

Before you start, read the Anal Play Guide to help allay any fears or anxiety you might have. Decide what you hope to gain from it before you start and put yourself in the right frame of mind. 

2. Start by Doing It Solo  

Although there is nothing wrong with trying things out with a partner, initially starting off by yourself may be more comfortable. You are the expert on your own body, after all. 

You'll have complete control while you're alone. Try out various positions, move at your own pace, and pause as necessary. 

Starting with the most intensive anal vibrator settings right away is not recommended.

Go gradually and at your own pace. If you are unfamiliar, take a moment to unwind and enjoy the sensations.

After you've gained confidence, knowledge, and expertise, you can proceed to conduct experiments with a partner. 

3. Practice Good Hygiene  

Hygiene is important in every sexual scenario, but it is especially important during anal play. Your anus, including your digestive system, will get a lot closer to you. Cleaning up before returning can be beneficial.  

Use unscented, hypoallergenic baby wipes for a quick clean. Make sure you go to the restroom at least 30 minutes before you start by emptying your bowels and thoroughly washing your anal area. You can use an enema one to two hours before anal play to ensure you are as clean as possible. 

Read: How to prepare for Anal Sex?

4. Don't forget the Lubricant 

When it comes to anal play, you need lube. It's essential! There's no natural lubrication in the anus — and dry sex is no fun. To help your vibrator penetrate smoothly with no discomfort, make sure you use a lot of lubricant to make you are comfortable. When in doubt, add more. 

Read: How to prepare to Anal Sex? 

Compared to other sex toys on the market, using a dildo for the first time might be preferable. Unlike some sex toys, a silicone dildo has a firm yet flexible design. The soft, skin-like outer coating allows easy insertion and a comfortable fit.  

When it comes to actual sex, it can take time and sometimes awkwardness to find that perfect spot. With a silicone dildo, you can place your new toy in any position you like, finding the ideal angle to hit all the right spots, so you can enjoy pleasure from all angles.  

All you need to get started is some water-based lube to ensure your experience is as enjoyable as possible.  

It is not only used for masturbation. There are many ways you can use a dildo, including:   

1. Practicing your oral sex skills, whether you are getting comfortable with something in your mouth or learning new deepthroating skills.  

2. Penetrating or pegging your partner, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.   

3. Adding the excitement of role reversal, especially if you are not usually the one getting penetrated during sex.  

4. Double penetration to provide an extra feeling of fullness without needing an additional person involved. 

Read: 5 Reasons Why You Should Try A Double Penetration Orgasm

There are different types of orgasms that people with vaginas and penis can have, the list below will show you how to achieve these. For more information read: Benefits of Orgasms for Women 

Vaginal: Stimulation from being penetrated with either a penis or a luxury sex toy like a dildo or vibrator. The Gama Dildo is perfectly designed for g-spot stimulation alone or with a partner.  

Clitoral: Either through masturbation, a sex toy, oral sex, or any other type of touching, the clit can provide incredible sensations. The Apex uses suction and a function that acts as a tongue for some great clitoral stimulation. It has the bonus of a g-spot dildo as a handle.  

Anal: Anal orgasms can happen through anal sex or by yourself with a toy. The Dia is a remote-controlled vibrator/anal plug.  

Erogenous Zones: Orgasm from erogenous zones can be reached by stimulating sensitive parts of your body like the nipples, nape of the neck, and around the groin.  

Prostate Orgasm: The butt Plug Dia is a great to start with for beginners, and it is designed explicitly for p-spot stimulation! You can also go for a toy that vibrates. The Neptune 2 could be a great option to stimulate both the anus and perineum with or without vibrations. (It also comes with a remote control for easy access and couples’ play!).