Butt Plugs & Anal Toys

You're not alone in feeling intimidated by the notion of putting something up there. Taking things one step at a time is the best way to ease into it. Here are a few pointers to assist you in understanding how to operate an anal vibrator properly.

1. Take Things at Your Own Pace

There's a lot out there that can make you reconsider your first-time anal vibrator encounter, from taboos to misconceptions. Taking things one step at a time is the most critical component of breaking down this barrier.

Read the Anal Play Guide to help alleviate any of your anxieties or fears before you begin. Before you begin, figure out what you want to gain out of it and get yourself in the correct frame of mind.

2. Start by Doing It Solo  

There's nothing wrong with experimenting with someone else, but it can be more comfortable to try things off alone first. After all, you know your own body best. 

You'll have complete control while you're alone. Experiment with different positions, go at your own pace, and stop when needed.

You don't want to start with the most intense anal vibrator settings right away; go slow and at your own pace. Relax and take in the sensations, especially if they are inexperienced. You can move on to experimenting with a partner after you feel empowered, informed, and experienced.

3. Practice Good Hygiene 

Hygiene is important in every sexual scenario, but it is especially important during anal play. Your anus, including your digestive system, will get a lot closer to you. Cleaning up before returning can be beneficial. 

Use unscented, hypoallergenic baby wipes for a quick clean. Make sure you go to the restroom at least 30 minutes before you start by emptying your bowels and thoroughly washing your anal area. You can use an enema one to two hours before anal play to ensure you are as clean as possible. 

4. Don't forget the Lubricant

When it comes to anal play, you need lube. It's essential! There's no natural lubrication in the anus — and dry sex is no fun. To help your vibrator penetrate smoothly with no discomfort, make sure you use a lot of lubricant to make you are comfortable. When in doubt, add more.

Read: How to prepare to Anal Sex?

Yes, Anal toys are safe; with that said, if you decide to wear your anal plug for longer than the suggested 2-3 hours, we recommend listening to your body and not pushing yourself, especially during your first couple of times.

Pay attention to any messages your body sends you while wearing your anal toy and adjust accordingly.  

Because your rectum lacks pain receptors, it's easier to go without realizing something is amiss until it's too late. When exploring anal play with your partner, it's also crucial to check in to better understand each other's comfort levels and preferences. 

Anything can harm, especially in this case. It can be uncomfortable if you have never had anal sex before and your anus has never been stretched or penetrated in that way. It can be unpleasant and stretch your anus in unexpected ways but staying relaxed is the key. The sky is the limit for anal pleasure once you've relaxed those vital muscles.

It will probably be uncomfortable or painful when you first start having anal sex, but this should lessen as you become more experienced. If you need a break, extra lube, or to shift, don't be hesitant to tell your partner!

Once you've become relaxed and experienced with anal sex, the pleasure can be phenomenal. If you have a prostate, you may experience prostate orgasm, which can cause waves of full-body orgasm in certain people. 

People with and without prostates can get stimulated by the nerve endings within the anal canal, leading to intense orgasms. 

At JIMMYJANE,  our Anal vibrators are 100% focused on quality and functionality to provide you with the most incredible experience possible. 

Perhaps if you ask yourself this question, you also ask yourself numerous other questions, including Does anal sex hurt the first time? What does anal sex feel like? How do I have anal sex that feels amazing?

It can feel like a big and exciting step, and it helps to know more about it!

If You Are New to Anal, Should You Try It Alone First?

Even if you have a vagina and are used to the feeling of being penetrated, anal penetration is an entirely different experience. While the vagina gets wet naturally, the anus doesn't. If you've never had anal, you should try it alone before you do it with a partner to see how much lubricant you need to feel pleasure. Guaranteed, you will need more sex lubricant than you think. 

Another reason it might be great to try anal before doing it with a partner is because, technically speaking, your anus naturally tenses and shuts when not in use. Relaxing those tight muscles is a skill you will have to practice to feel pleasure.

If you are using your hands to penetrate your anus, clip your nails and thoroughly wash your hands. If you are using a toy, be sure to disinfect and clean it before and after. Here is an excellent post about cleaning your sex toy.

Any way you look at it, exploring the potential pleasure in this part of your body is empowering. If you don't know what feels right for you, communicating with your partner effectively can be more challenging.

Read more about Anal Sex here.

You can stimulate the p-spot internally or externally by massaging either with your fingers or a toy. To prepare for any type of prostate play, make sure you do a little foreplay and get some lube. Remember to make sure that your hands are clean, your nails are trimmed, and any toy you use is clean. 

Read this complete guide that will help you with this goal.