By Sunny Rodgers, ACS, Clinical Sexologist and Sexual Health & Wellness Educator
Any man you ask will tell you there’s no such thing as a bad blow job. True, but with these tips & tricks you can discover ways to give your partner the perfect blow job.
Tip 1
Get comfortable. If you aren’t comfortable, this will immediately translate into an uncomfortable blow job. Use a pillow or cushion to properly support your knees. The last thing you want to be thinking of is how your knee caps are hurting.
Tip 2
Start with some blow job foreplay. Building up to a blow job will intensify the experience. Start with a few licks and kisses. No matter how turned on you are, do not just jump right in! You want to start with teasing and touching him before you pleasure him with your mouth.
Tip 3
Sweeten the deal and add some delicious flavor to the mix. There are some delectable lotions, gels, sprays and flavored products available to turn your partner’s penis into an appetizing treat. Please note that most of these flavored options are not appropriate for intercourse so if your blow job moves in that direction make sure to use proper lubricant or intimate body lotion.
It’s Blow Job time
Start by making sure his penis is nice and slick – lick him in nice long strokes and pay more attention to his penis head where most of his sensitive nerves are located. Remember – wetter is better. And don’t go too deep right away. You want to make him crave your touch, so take your time and build up to a nice in-&-out rhythm.
You don’t want to use just one blow job technique from start to finish. Using multiple techniques will keep him guessing about what’s coming next.
- So now would be a good time to change up your rhythm and bring your hands into play. Make sure your hands are smooth and your nails are trimmed. And start by wrapping your hands around his shaft and rubbing gently up and down.
- You can move into an up and down twisting movement as long as you have lots of lubrication. But remember to give his penis head lots of attention when you add your hands – suck, lick, kiss and swirl your tongue around his sensitive penis head.
Are you ready to go deeper? He probably is 🔥 👄
I recommend a numbing spray or gel if you have an active gag reflex. Go as deep as you’re comfortable with, and at this point keeping the head of his penis inside your mouth is recommended.
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This way your hands can be stroking him while your tongue is stimulating his tip, and your in-&-out rhythm can pick up its pace. Keep increasing your rhythm and make your hand stroke tighter… you should be able to pick up on his cues to know if he’d like more or less force.
Fireworks! 🎆
This is the moment he’s been waiting for. Your techniques have worked. But just don’t stop!
If you’ve decided to enjoy his moment inside your mouth then stop any mouth stimulation that may be too intense for him to enjoy.
He may just want you to hold his penis with your hands while he enjoys the warmth of your mouth. If you’ve decide you’d prefer him to explode outside of your mouth, be sure to gently remove his penis right before he orgasms. You’ll have him shaking with satisfaction!
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7 More Ways to Give Him the BEST Blow Job Ever!
# 1. Enjoy yourself! There’s nothing wrong with wearing vibrating panties and pleasuring yourself as you pleasure your partner.
# 2. It’s not all about the penis! Remember to give some love to his balls and perineum too. (A little added vibration under the balls can be an explosive surprise!)
# 3. Make it a combo – Using your mouth AND your hands will multiply his pleasure!
# 4. Start with some verbal foreplay or dirty talk! Tell him how turned on you are and how sexy he is – this is a great way to set the mood!
# 5. Seduce him with your eyes! Remember to make eye contact and let him see how much you’re enjoying yourself.
# 6. Be playful, have fun, explore him with your mouth! There’s a reason it’s called sex play ;-)
# 7. Don’t go deep – the head of the penis and frenulum right underneath the tip are the most sensitive spots, so there’s no need to go balls deep.
#8. If you want to go advanced, why not try a prostate massage?
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