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Have your toy fully charged and set the Vibration mood at the lowest setting. If you're using a silicone toy, make sure you have some water-based lubricant. Before utilizing your toy in the bathtub, be sure it's waterproof and submersible.   

1. Become familiar with the controls. 

It's easy to jump right into things with a new toy before getting to know it. That's normally good - most toys are very intuitive — but studying the controls first might be extremely beneficial. 

Knowing which buttons control which functions (and which govern the speed, intensity, and patterns of these functions) can help you find the most exciting settings.  

2. Lubricate, lubricate, lubricate. 

Everything benefits from lubrication. Apply lubrication compatible with your couple sex toy material and your body for greater comfort and feeling. 

Stick with water-based lubrication if you don't know what your toy is made of. It's versatile and can be used with anything. 

3. Set it in place. 

Place the vibrator shaft deep enough in the vagina to flush against the clitoris. You may need to alter your position or the toy to ensure that it's making touch with the correct areas. 

There is no right or wrong way to operate a Vibrator. Some people use it on their backs, while others turn over onto their stomachs to grind more forcefully on the clit stimulator. 

 You may also use it to increase your arousal by stimulating the vulva and labia initially. Similarly, a partner in whatever position feels pleasant may hold bunny sensations in place. 

4. Switch it on. 

Remember how you figured out the controls a few minutes ago? Excellent. 

You should know how to activate the couple sex toy by now. Please turn it on and adjust the controls to your preferences. Starting on the lowest setting can help you build up your enjoyment gradually for a stronger climax. Still, you can start anywhere and explore with different intensity levels as you go. 

5. Do whatever makes you happy. 

Once you're lubed up, in position, and have your vibrator locked and loaded on your preferred setting combination; the rest is up to you. 

You may leave it in place, do your Kegels on it, thrust it in and out, spin it over, so your vibrator is on the perineum or use it while giving or receiving head. 

Depending on the toy you purchase you could wear your underwear over it and walk around your house as if you own it. (check out our wereable vibrators). Get imaginative and remember that they're just as enjoyable for partnered sex as solo play. 

Keep in mind that a couple sex toy will not constantly contact the body if you shove it in and out with long or shallow strokes. That's OK if removing and replacing it every time a thrust feels fantastic, but if you want complete contact, focus on shorter, deeper strokes, or grind your hips back and forth on it for an in-and-out action. 

It's completely normal to use toys in a relationship. Don't believe us? The numbers don't lie. 

Research shows that it's more common for couples to use sex toys than single people. Another survey showed that 52% of people used a sex toy in a relationship .So you're not alone. More than half of couples enjoy playing together with dildos, vibrators, penis rings and other fun accouterments. 

Research suggests that using sex toys can make your relationship even better both in and out of the bedroom. One study showed that nearly half of all couples who use vibrators said they frequently communicate better, while just over a quarter of couples who don't use sex toys reported the same. 

‌In general, giving sex toys a try is a wonderful idea. Each situation is different. For some people, having penetrative sex is painful, so using toys opens a whole new world of sexy possibilities. For others, it makes it easier to orgasm, brings the partners closer together, or spices things up and keeps things interesting. 

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There are so many great things about trying a sex toy. Not only will you explore new pleasurable avenues with the nearest and dearest person in your life, but you can also improve communication and create a more solid relationship.

Trying new things in the bedroom can build trust. Plus, there's nothing to lose. Sex toys can never replace a real-life experience or body part, but they will enhance your pleasure together. 

Introducing toys into a relationship can be a lot of fun. However, just like anything in the bedroom, it requires communication. Exploring what you both like (and don't like) is part of the journey.

Sex toys can be excellent in a relationship, but it's also about you and your partner's personal preferences. The only way you'll know if you like it is to try one out!