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The Future Of Sex? Vibrating Cock Rings For Couples (You May Never Go Back)

 

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  • Table of Contents
  • Cock Rings — Where To Begin
  • How to use a Vibrating Cock Ring?
  • Powerful Vibrations Work For Men — Fact or Fiction?
  • Couples Cock Rings
  • Get A Cock Ring That Can Do Both

We all love rings — engagement rings, a rare ring on the phone from our crush — hell, some of us even love Lord of the Rings. So why not add vibrating cock rings to the list?

We know, the name might not sound super romantic per say — but using one can be quite...what’s the term — MIND BLOWING for both parties involved.

That’s why we’ve put together a nice round up (pun intended) of everything you need to know about how cock rings work, how to use them, and why you are probably going to need one with a remote control.

cock rings for couples
cock rings for couples

Cock Rings — Where To Begin

Before we get into these new state of the art, high quality silicone penis rings, let’s talk about their more modest cousins — regular, dependable plastic rings that get the job done, too. While basic plastic or silicone rings can be good for beginners looking to experiment with them, the challenge can be finding the correct one that works with you or your partner’s girth, restricting blood flow for a powerful erection and having it feel snug but not too tight.

We recommend buying a multi pack of two or three to see which fits best like the Deimos Cock ring are great for increasing stamina (lasting a little longer is key, am I right gentlemen?) or just enjoying the pleasure of a stand-up erection (another pun intended) that you might not have achieved otherwise.

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While constricting the shaft of the penis, cock rings can stop the backflow of blood circulation, so blood can rush to the penis, while the blood flowing out is restricted by the ring. This keeps the penis harder for longer.

How to use a Vibrating Cock Ring?

how to use a cock ring
how to use a cock ring

  1. Make sure the penis is semi-erect to erect fully.

  2. Use a JIMMYJANE's water-based lubricant around the base of the penis so that the cock ring doesn't stick to the skin, catch on hair or pinch any sensitive spot.

  3. Stretch the cock ring open and put it around the penis, an inch or so away from the base. Once on the shaft, slide the ring against the body to tighten any loose skin.

  4. If wearing a cock ring around the shaft and scrotum, stretch the ring out larger and place it around both simultaneously. Don't forget to lube the scrotum, too, or there may be painful hair pulling.

  5. Start your sex as you normally would. Cock rings are also incredible sex enhancers to use during oral sex, hand-jobs, and masturbation.

  6. Remove the cock ring after ejaculation, as it should never be left on more than 20-30 minutes. 

If you’re using a silicone toy (which is great for beginners because it’s soft and stretchy, make sure you’re using a water-based lubricant. Using a silicone lubricant with a silicone toy can actually break down the toy itself.

You can also try using ice to literally shrink your erection down and decrease swelling if you need to.

Powerful Vibrations Work For Men — Fact or Fiction?

One of the biggest myths about male pleasure is that vibrations are only beneficial for women: absolutely not true. Men deserve to experience the beautiful thing that is a harder, high quality erection, plus intensely pleasurable vibrations for them and their partner.

But don’t take my word for it — you should definitely try one and find out what the hype is all about. From the c-ring collection, the Kore c-ring is a powerful, high-quality vibrating cock ring made of super soft silicone with a powerful motor at the top.

Couples Cock Rings

Ok, listen up — here’s why vibrating c-rings are the future of sex: not only does it restrict blood flow making your erection pleasurably rock-hard, it sends powerful vibrations throughout your shaft, head and the design shoots vibrations directly to your partner for clitoral stimulation and/or other sensitive areas.

It’s pretty much like having a hands-free spot vibrator with the joys of deep, penetrative sex at the same time, making for an all-in-all body and mind-blowing experience. With seven high-performing vibrational modes and three intensity levels to choose from.

Get A Cock Ring That Can Do Both

As you may have guessed — it only gets better. No matter what your experience level is with these kinds of sex toys, there’s always going to be a toy that matches your experience level, and there’s always one that will help you expand your horizons and take you to the next level — sort of like a good work out.

This is where the Tarvos c-ring comes into play (and the puns keep coming). The Tarvos cock ring is another innovative design with a powerful motor in the large top of the design that can be flipped to send amazing vibrational sensations to the wearer’s perineum for increased pleasure, or worn on the top for clitoral stimulation.


While the motor is contained in the head, its power will send thrilling vibrations through all genitalia involved. Hot tip: during intense penetration, hold the penis steadily inside your partner to deliver vibes to both parties. It will send a wave of pleasure throughout your entire body. Its soft, flexible silicone material will also warm to your body temperature for an unbelievable experience altogether.

Remember: don’t forget about that remote control ladies and gentlemen!

A Cock Ring And A High-Quality Vibrator Walk Into A Bar...

vibrator cock ring for couples
vibrator cock ring for couples

What’s the next best thing to a vibrating cock ring?

Well, it’s a c-ring that is inspired from an award-winning clitoral vibrator, of course! (Like I said, it only gets better, and better, and…)

The next recommendation in our c-ring journey is of course, a ring with not one, but two motors, buzzing inside two individual ears that successfully surround the clitoris with powerful vibrations. Also (you guessed it) a part of the high-tech  Solis inspired by the seven-time award winning clitoral sex toy, the Form 2 clitoral vibrator. And why this move to incorporate such a clever design in a c-ring toy?


Research continually shows that the orgasm gap is real: studies show that straight men orgasm far more often than straight and bisexual women. Plus, it’s becoming more and more of a known fact that penetrative sex doesn't provide enough stimulation to make the female body orgasm as often as men do.

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Luxury Sex toys like these that provide pleasure for both males and females really do address this gap and provide a much-needed solution to the pleasure gap in general. Hopefully, the more awareness that this discussion creates, the more it will be normalized for couples to seek out creative solutions to closing this pleasure gap.

Some Cock Ring Pro-Tips

Two other important things you may not have known about the miraculous c-ring: sexologists recommend that you wear a cock ring for a max of 30 minutes at a time so please proceed with caution — especially when beginning a new adventure with this toy, just to be safe.

Some advanced users like to try putting the ring around the scrotum as well to create that intensely satisfying “cupping” effect to send more vibration and restriction to the testicles as well. But please, when putting the c-ring around the scrotum, make sure that you are using a very stretchy silicone toy — nothing plastic for this kind of play, please and thank you.

And lastly, maybe the most important thing you need to know before embarking on the c-ring journey by yourself or with a partner is this mantra:

KEEP IT CLEAN AND DO IT RIGHT.

Read: How to Properly Clean your Sex Toy?

It should really be the mantra for your sex life and sex toy life in general.

The first step?

Buy a high-quality toy cleaner that’s paraben-free and alcohol-free like the JIMMYJANE Antibacterial Toy Cleaner in a spray bottle. Spray down after use and wipe with a clean, dry cloth. Let it air dry completely before putting it away or storing it.

Remember — safety is sexy.


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Disclaimers

The information provided in this article is for general informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended as, nor should it be considered a substitute for, professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding sexual health or medical conditions. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you have read in this article.

If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor, go to the nearest emergency department, or call emergency services immediately.

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